Tuesday, July 18, 2006

Relationships

There are very few successful people who did it by themselves. They impact us and we have an impact in all we do with other people.

Those of us who can do more than just take care of our own needs need to feel the responsibility to bring others up as well.

Lots of us look out for ourselves and only trust ourselves, but to be truly fulfilled we all need to come together. All people in our lives are to be cherished whether during that moment we feel like they are giving us what we need from them. It's not all about receiving but rather the person that focuses on giving ends up always getting more in the long run, and usually the short run as well. TEAM together everyone achieves more.

We shy away from people that are different than us often because of fear. We have a poor little old me attitude, but if we truly know ourself and how great we are we will be more friendly with others. We need to not only respond to others but make every attempt to uplift them. That's who people will like and want to be around. We can change others lives by our words. In average person's life 1,500 people will be influenced by what they say and do in large ways.

Our relationships are not built by doing big things but by all little things accumulated over time. We need to have love for others and believe in them more than they even do for themselves.

We are all on the same side not competing. Our job is to score points and help score points for the team not look at the other players and think of what they should be doing for us. If we are to create expectations of how they should act towards us we are setting ourselves up for failure and are at their mercy. As well as not giving them the same unconditional support and love that we would appreciate in our lives.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Yeah!!!!! Thank you so much for this, and for each piece of article you put here, for each piece of coaching you give us. They are truly changing my life.

Anonymous said...

The Golden Rule is, and always has been the best way to treat people. This helps put all relationships, but especially the business relationships, in a very clear perspective. Thank you for all you do for us.